The Indian Society

         The Indian Society

Human beings are known to be social animals. They need other people around them for support, for help, for “development”. The aggregate of people living together in a more or less ordered community or “the society” was formed to fulfill these requirements. Our relatives, neighbours, friends, acquaintances form it.

Nowadays the term “supportive society” maybe taken ironically by many people, taking the youth into special consideration, and I do not seem to have reasons, enough to contradict that.

The institution of society seems to have lost its motive of being supportive, for which it was formed in the first place. Call it increasing competetion, or decreasing goodwill of people, but people seem more eager to criticize than they are to apprecaite.

They tend to judge us at every moment, every action, every decision, and what's worst is that they judge us according to their centuries old mentality.

Apple co-founder Steve Wozniak commented about Indians lacking in ceative quotient, and he blamed the Indian education system for inhibiting the creativity. In my opinion, the society adds up to this conservative atitude. Living in one of the most populous countries, with a competetion with one of the most hardworking and commited intellectual labourers, and keeping in mind about what the judgemental society thinks about us, is not all easy.

Steve Wozniak was not wrong when he said that in the process of looking for good jobs, the hunger for creativity has taken a backseat. Ever heard an Indian aunty advicing you to go after your passion, and pursue the career you like?

Youngsters are starting to develop a mindset of either not caring at all about wat people think or caring a little too much about what others think that they change their goals in life just to gain approval of people.

Also in the era of increasing competetion and close minded people, the youth is sure to be disturbed, and more or less frightened about being compared with all the children of his age group.

Moreover, this leads to bragging about the achievements and the performance of their respective wards which leads to cut throat egoistic competetion between the grown ups which ultimately increases the pressure on he children.

Lately, in my opinion, society has had more of a presure exerting phenomena on an individual which often leads to show off and the exertion of the individual beyong his limits-physically, financally, socially.

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What We Go Through

                What We Go Through

“What is wrong with this generation ?” is something maybe everybody wonders.

Basically we're the officially most fucked up generation they ever thought of. Right?

Well, we seem to have our reasons. We have to deal with a lot more stuff than what the decades, our parents or grandparens lived in, had in store for them. We have to deal with a lot of stuff that maybe...... is not meant for our age.

They say thatour parents experienced mood swings, just like we do. Yes, but they did have someone to vent out what they felt... they lived in an era where trust and faith did exist.

Our problems are far reaching than disapproving parents and society. We have peer issues. It's important to be cool..... and all the vices seem to come along with all the cool stuff.

Those who wre able to adapt to this stuff, grow into less caring,less accountable,less trustworthy,more arrogant , egoist....nerds.

Those who couldn't, tend to be hit by a “I'm not good enough” syndrome. They experience a feeling of alienation from the fun stuff in their life. The so called “cool” children dominate the front gronuds, and all others are made to thonk they don't deserve to be so reknown, to feel so great about themselves. This is what in some cases leads to an inferiority complex.Leading to feeling of loneliness and despair.

The so called “cool” children ultimately realise that all those around them are not trustworthy enogh. They have all grown into what cannot be described as a good human being. They too however, find themselvas alone when they need someone to talk to, to vent to, to share with, no matter how many people they call “friends”.

So be it the scincere one's, the popular one's, the book worms, the stars of field, after a while all drop to the same level of helplessness and despair. All have to resort to keeping inside, what is inside them.

This evidently leads to the behaviour that causes everybody to think “what's wrong?”

This generation has to live without real “friends”. All they have to care about is an attractive image, by showoff, self pepping, etc..etc.. They need to fake who they are. Cause they know no one is there to understand something, they'll just be making a laughing stock of themselves.

Do you get what's wrong? Did you deal with this stuff? Or do you know what we are dealing with? Then you Better not question about “what's wrong”

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